Caring for a Loved One

From the start, it's critical for you to recognize that your loved one's mental illness is not your fault, nor is it their fault. They are suffering from a very real, and treatable, illness that is rooted in the chemistry of their brain. It is not a weakness or a consequence of past events, and it can't be overcome by simply “trying harder.”

Remember, You are Not Alone.

Schizophrenia is an illness just like asthma or heart disease. Mental illness is more common than you might think: more than 2 million Americans suffer from the illness in any given year. With your help, your doctor can give your loved one the kind of help he or she really needs. And you can get the person you know back again.

As friends and family members, you can actively help in the treatment of your loved one. Here are some ways you might help:

Learn more about their mental illness and how treatment can help
Know the signs when your loved one is having symptoms
Help your loved one stick with their treatment
Encourage them to avoid alcohol and street drugs
Be patient
Call the doctor, 911, or the hospital if your loved one shows signs of wanting to hurt himself or herself or others
Remove any guns from the house — to reduce the risk of suicide or violence
Participate in talk therapy
Attend a support-group meeting with your loved one

Getting your observations and emotions down on paper can be helpful. Download the Caregiver Diary.

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